Quote on Otherness

When we make the salvation of our own souls into our life's pursuit, aren't we just spiritualizing an existence that is essentially self-seeking?
I've written about this concept before, but this said it to me in a new way. Being self-seeking is always wrong (because it is NOT loving) but we often think that if we are self-seeking in "spiritual ways" that it's okay. I'm not sure that it is.
It seems to me that the most biblical form of spirituality has loving God and loving people as it's goal... NOT the love of self, the preservation of self, or even the gain of eternity for self!
I'm not saying it's wrong to be wise enough to know that we need to be saved by God, but if that's our life's goal then it looks like maybe we're on the wrong journey, at least not the one Jesus described in the Gospels.
This one could be touchy, but what do you think?